Paul listened. He was someone who from when I was lucky enough to call him a friend was there to take time for you, to offer advice and who's company I cherished. When I was going through times of deep depression it was Paul who listened and phoned, when my mother was first diagnosed with Parkinsons and I was struggling to see her not coping it was Paul who put his hand on my shoulder and was there again just listening. He was like a brother to me and he will be deeply, deeply missed.